The Past is a Teacher 'Not prison respect Past

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Just take deep breath and Imagine life as a classroom, Every time we regard our past, whether good or bad, if our past is bad we recall them again and again and cry; by this, we disrespect our teacher. Teacher means we learn from our past. If such incident didn't happen in past, today we are not what we have. By learning from past, we become what we have. If our past was good, we recall and cry and wish, "Please, past moments come back," but they never come back, and we feel bad and become sad. We need to not recall past because they never come back and we can't change the past. If we recall past, we have to respect past as a teacher. As we respect our teacher, we need to respect past as teacher taught many things; same past helps us to learn.life has a simple formula: look back and thank God, look ahead and trust God, and always respect Past and enjoy life and become a living, working monk . In conclusion life has a simple formula look back and thank God look ahead a...
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You know a psychological trick people use to manipulate others?

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How can you use psychology to manipulate people?


A lot of people do this one trick, and most often they aren't cognizant of doing it because it's a subconscious habit they have developed which is caused by low self-esteem, unhealthy ego attachment and neediness.




It's called undermining.

To undermine someone means to plant seeds of self-doubt in their minds in an attempt to make you dependent on them, weaken you, control you and gain power over you.

Some examples of undermining are:

  1. Negging. Negging is basically sentimental manipulation, and its purpose is to undermine a persons confidence and to increase their need for the manipulator's approval.

  1. Belittling someone. This may happen in the form of spreading false rumours about you.

  1. Focusing on your flaws more than on your strengths. This occurs totally because of someones unhealthy ego attachment. If they focus on your strengths and skills which may be better than theirs, they would feel powerless and inferior to you. Focusing on your flaws on the other hand makes them feel superior to you and that gives them a sense of control.
  2. Setting others up against you. I found that this happens when someone cannot cope with the pain caused by rejection or a brbreak-up
  3. When you broke up your friend  then your friend, she/he became mad, started telling her friends and every other she /he knew that I am an asshole and even spread lies about me that made her friends hate me. Sometime later You got messages from them whose contents were full of nasty insults and stuff. All because my ex was unable to accept I didn't like him/ her anymore. This is yet another defense mechanism caused by unhealthy ego attachment and its purpose is to gain control over someone or over a situation
  4. A commitment to misunderstand you. Sometimes, people are so full of hate and resentment that they cannot interpret correctly what you say and do. They will always misunderstand it and manipulate or distort the truth, so they can spread blame and hate eveverywhere

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